No Sex for 7 MonthsState: South Carolina
City: Amptown
My Question or Questions: Growin up having 5 brothers taught me alot about relationships. I was constantly being schooled on how men treat women they really like different from women that its all about sex with. But i have found myself in a situation where I might have found the one. It took him months but he told me he loved me first n i was scared to fall in love because of not knowin real from fake.
But i did n since then i find myself so insecure. When i dont talk to him i swear he's with anotha female. We haven't even been sexually active with each other yet n this might be part of my problem because im away from time to time with school. He said he has been waiting 7 months on me n i honestly wanna believe him but how can I?
I haven't heard anything bad about him except that he's been gettin drunk lately. His excuse is that's how he keeps his mind off of sex. It is planned to happen very soon though but i need to know from a man's pointof view if im waistin my time or is he really trying? Is he my prince in disguise or is he that damn toad?Where Is The Protest Black Women?With all the press, and now stardom that Superhead has gotten with her first book.(which was a bestseller I might add) the magazine covers, and interviews both radio/print, the talks of Elise Neal playing her in the movie about her life.
On the horizon, is the new book Superhead is about to drop.
I was wondering if BW are going to protest her??
Wth all the protest the movie "Norbit" got from BW, the protest of Nelly, and other rappers having women half naked in there vidoes, the protest of the Don Imus comments that was used as the Catalyst for Oprah to dig into BM and the rappers who use profanity against BW, why isnt there a big uproar with Superhead??
Do BW not see the more press she gets, the more white america will see her as the face of BW? But sistahs dont see that, they just want the chance to find out the new crop of superstars that have cheated on there wives with her.
Sistahs can protest Norbit, which is (for all intent and purposes) ficticious. But they have a real, true life, woman that rappers talk about in mitts, and not just some figment of BM's imagination, and have the opportunity to protest A TRUE NEGATIVE IMAGE OF BW, that of course white society is going to look at her and as a respresentation of BW.
But guess what, I bet there wont be a peep from BW and hypocrites like Oprah and Tyra have Superhead on her show to promote her book, but those women,and millions of other BW wonder where the term B*tch and hoe comes from. Where is the townhall meeting, or show addressing the other side of the issue?? Which is the fact that people like Superhead exist, and BW all across the country line up around the building whenever there is a casting call for video models.
Why arent there any shows having those women explain why they do what they do and again will there be any protests when her new book comes out?It's All About The ChildrenWhen does the attitude of, "It's all about me", become "It's all about the children"?
When does the man that's making love to, with and for you become the two of you making a product of that love together?
Other than good mutual feelings, what should be the product of that bonding?
Right now there are campaigns to improve the conditions of the whole world, the whole world would include you and the people you have personal affection for. So, at what point do any of those global spiritually and physically beneficial campaigns become a part of your intimate exchanges?
Light Skin VS. Dark SkinWhy is that when i am out with a bunch of light skinned women i am always passed over? Most of my friends are very fair skin with junk in the trunk! I am a dark brown skin sister with no junk in the trunk. I am always passed over because of my skin color and my body and features are not that of the average black woman.ie thin lips,no ass, no curves. I am always ridiculed by black men, but yet they will choose a tramp that has a nice body and whorish ways over me. All i ever get is you are so pretty for a dark skinned woman! I am so fed up. I have become so self conscious that i refuse to hang out with my friends because i am fed up with the ridicule and constantly being ignored when we are out. What am i to do?? Continue to be passed over and hang out or sit home single?
Why Won't Some Men LeaveWhy wont some men leave? Why do they stay when they are never on the same page? I am in a relationship where there have been several times that I have either tried to leave my man or tried to get him to leave me.He is very insecure and slightly controling with my family and friends. We have been together for three years and we have an 8 month old baby now, What do I do? Do I just come to the reality that he is who I am suppose to be with even though I think I can find better? Or just feel trapped to the point where I will end up doing something to him or myself that I will regret later in life, because I feel my choice of freedom is gone?It's Hard For Good Black WomenI have been doing this black dating site thing for about 8 months. I have chatted with a fair amout of men, most which I have found to be deceptive and its just getting very disappointing. Im a nice looking and receptive woman that just want a brother to keep it real.
I have tried changing my attitude and approach to put it out there to let men know Im not about the games and im a positive woman that deserves better. That also means im NOT interested in married or involved men. Seems like the women that put their bodies on display get all the attention. Why is it so hard for a good woman to attract good and honest men?I'm 38 & He's 61I just got married on July 5th 2007 to my husband and things are not like they were when we were dating.
Is it due to the fact that he's much older than myself? I'm 38 and he's 61. He has no compassion and don't like to hug are cuddle,not very affectionate, is it because of our age difference?
Please let me know if it is me are the difference between our age.He Slept With ProstitutesWould you enter into a committed relationship that might possibly lead to marriage with a man that has solicited prostitutes prior to our relationship?His health stats are in check, but I'm not totally comfortable with a man that has slept with prostitutes.Only I Can Hit ThatWhy do men think they can do anything and women are not suppose to care? They can cheat and do all kinds of insensitive things but a woman has to take all that and do the opposite to them. Why do man think it is o.k to cheat and if women cheat they want to kill a sista? What is the thing with only I can hit that?Independent ManI am a young black man who works 2 jobs in my mid 30's is there a reason why it seems women do not like a man that is independent, smart and someone that will be more than just another thug or someone who will hurt them?
Oedipus ComplexWhy do so many of you black men have the oedipus complex? None of you want to be responsible for yourselves or your actions and chivalry is just plain ole dead with you black men.I am curious..As a black man it puzzles me as to why I can attract attractive white and non-black women but have a hella hard time getting attractive black women to even say hi to me or look in my direction.. And on top of it all, even the obese and unattractive black women seem to think they are too good to talk to. I am only writing this because I am approaching a time where I would like to get married (preferably to a black woman) and It just puzzles me as to why I have a better chance attracting a non-black woman..Hoes, Sluts & B**ches!OK, now i'm a 26 yr. old black female. Why in the world that when women wants a different variety of men here and there sometimes, they are called this word and that? But why when men wants a variety of women here and there sometimes they are called heroes, the man, or who cares? I'm in a relationship for four yours, so no i'm not single. But if a single woman is doing her thing, how ever you call it, why do you need to call them hoes, slut, bitch? So you men that does the SAME THING, what can we call you? Slut? Man hore? Nasty? I hate sexist people. I really really do.
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